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6 Proven Ways to finding a Boyfriend (Husband)

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5 Proven Ways to finding a Boyfriend (Husband)
5 Proven Ways to finding a Boyfriend (Husband)

Most African countries have a population of more women, the opposite gender is more as compared to a number of men available this been the case for Zambia as well. So we have ladies searching online these days on how to find a boyfriend or husband? Well, the bible in Proverbs 18:22 says, He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the Lord”. But this is actually in reference to men finding and looking for whom to marry, not women.

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But its so imperative and common in Africa to see men, looking for wives and women at the same time eyeing and aspiring the man to settle down with. Mostly these women hide there feelings other than just giving hints and signs of interest in you. I honestly do not know if its right for a woman to start looking for a man to date and marry because its not a bigger deal to find a boyfriend, and I believe you have a reason to start looking for ways on how to find a boyfriend and lover for yourself.

Maybe its due to the past experience, so you want to try out some new love shoes LOL :). Well that’s simple but the challenge is finding a person who will not just waist your time but also settle with you and maintaining your relationship once married. One thing for certain is, most women are dreamers and want to live beautiful moments with a dream child hood partner, so they try understanding ways on how to find a good boyfriend?

Again its not every woman that can find a Boyfriend, so this article is for those with a most frequent question on how to get a man. And hopefully finding a person who will love them.

So, why do Girls try to find a boyfriend?

Due to Age: After reaching a certain age, its hard in Africa to locate your special soul mate, its a common thing for ladies above the age of 25 years in Zambia. While others its because of location, living in a small city and lack of needed exposure with different people, so don’t wonder why Lusaka is very populated.

Reduction in Males: Another reason is because men have become few than compared to women. Zambia alone in 2018 had female population of 50.49 % in total, according to a collection of development indicator recorded by World Bank. More ladies, means less men so that’s why we’ve created (6) six simple proven tips for you to find a boyfriend and then paddle towards having a good serious relationship and hopefully get married.

1. Have confidence and feel good about yourself always.

The looks mostly don’t matter and should not be a reason for you to think less of your self. Just like Pompi stated in his song “Make Up”, there’s more to you than what beauty holds. Get your head straight up, brighten your day with music, feel great about yourself in order to make a man see the greatness in you. Let the fire shine in your eyes, remember your a star and the city that shines on top of a heel, that which can never be hidden. A woman who loves herself cares more, so men search for that thing making a woman to feel safer. Focus on beauty of course, but develop more self-esteem.

Push had to reach and attain higher levels of Self-love which is extremely important in your life. After this then you can begin on ways to getting a boyfriend. People will see you from how you see yourself and nothing else. So how you think you’re made, same applies to the way men will see you and categorize your status which is key to finding a partner.

2. Find a Church and Do not refuse invitations

I mentioned above, finding a Man is really not a bigger deal, but having someone around you whose matured and with the intent to settle down in marriage is a problem. Good men are found in good places, the Church is the place to begin looking for a man. The bible says, “the fear of the lord is the beginning of wisdom”, therefore he who fears the lord surely has wisdom. So grow your network with friends from Church, leave the house! serve God and men somehow will notice your love for God and follow you. REMEMBER! seek first the kingdom of God and the rest will follow.

Go out on dinner invites, live good times with friends go to parties. Off course bars are also a place to find a man but just from the term “bars”, surely you can relate the kind of men found in such places. As a christian the best place is work, parties, at church or any other place you can meet people.

3. Do not be rude to men.

If you want to have a serious relationship, learn how to properly handle those who will be coming after you. Its a best way to a long process of having to find a Boyfriend . Bad new travels faster so be extremely nice to guys someone out there might be watching you on a distance and observing your behavior. On the contrary, either you don’t like been inconvenienced you will have lose your face a smile when approached and not to scare them.

But again don’t be too nice and open so you look desperate for a man. Let things things happen naturally acting like you know nothing. There is a time for everything and if its your time for finding a man, then it will happen once the right moment has arrived, once the right person arrived.

4. Look good to find a Boyfriend and be happy at all times

Exchange your looks and ensure you have smiles on your face, this helps to find a Boyfriend more especially when with that guy you’re interested in. Suit your mood with the place you are into, anyone having fan wants to talk to someone who seems to be happy. So to get a boyfriend, you should show joy in your life and happiness, so always mile, cheer up, talk, and importantly be nice !

5. Put the phone addiction aside if you’re find a Boyfriend .

Nowadays, to find a boyfriend you must not show your device addiction. Men don’t like ladies taking selfies and chatting on social networks like Whatsapp instead of focusing on the conversation. In Zambia many people go out with friends to talk and for some its offensive to see you end up with the cell phone in your hand. Its acceptable if its a call you are answering, but typing on your phone makes other people think you on the social networks or looking at other guys, failing to participate in the conversation with a man you might be with. If you stay like this, addicted to a mobile device, It will be hard to meet nice people and find a boyfriend or have a relationship. So please put the phone addiction aside!

6. To find a Boyfriend, avoid talking too much.

The bible refers to a man been the head of the house and Christ is the head of the church. A man looks up to man according to the bible and African culture, but these days due to the so called human rights women always want to talk more. If you are to talk, use a cool tone in your voice, take the conversation light and easy for him to think of you been much of a talker. When speaking, control your bad habits and avoid to gossip about your friends, his friends or people he might know.

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Do not speak ill of another person always try creating some mystery about yourself. Have good manners, try to find unique ways on how to make this man, who might be your husband, after trying so hard to find a Boyfriend more interested in you and him to be sweethearts.

5 Ways To Love Your Zambian Spouse And Maintain Peace

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5 Ways On How To Love Your Zambian Spouse
5 Ways On How To Love Your Zambian Spouse

Zambia is a very beautiful country, blessed with peace, not forgetting the beautiful lifestyle people enjoy. But complications follow, especially those in love sometimes, men having issues with there wives (Zambian women) and vice versa . According to Dailymail, records show over 28,000 cases of divorces are recorded annually. This is avoided if you know How To Love Your Spouse And Maintain A Happy Stable Relationship. And since you are here it means you really don’t want to go down the same lane, but really want to work tings out and enter the next phase with you spouse.

Communities are supportive of marriage and commitments made. But In as much as it is easy for you to find a partner, its a different case to enjoying a long term happy relationship because pressure draws into play and all over sudden fights escalate, disrespect in some cases, leading to Gender based violance (GBV) and later a divorce .

People get married almost everyday, couples seeing having tremendous moments, which is why its a prolific thing to understand Ways To Love Your Zambian Spouse. Citizens have a right to choose and enjoy love to the extreme with no restrictions, which is a social need, no one is deprived of this according to the law. But let’s not forget its your duty to understand special ways on how to treat your woman and man.

Since ancient times it is believed “if people just truly love one another, then surely they stay together”. But the bigger question is understanding exactly how to truly stay in love as husband and wife. So before you jump to 5 ways of how to love your spouse, Women always remember Ephesians 5:22 in line with submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord, while Ephesians 5:25 commands Husbands to love your wives. Alternatively you can check these scriptures about love and marriage. Most couples on our Facebook page had openly stated reasons for not getting much out of there relationships been because of not knowing ways to treat each other with love and respect, so Here Are;

5 ways on how to love your spouse better than before.

If you don’t better ways to love your spouse, take note that in fact, sometimes all you need is the application of some initiative.

1. Be considerate of your partners wants and feelings

Every society prefers to have individuals who take the feelings of others into consideration and not been self-centered. It becomes a problem in a developing country like Zambia been all about your self. And in those situations woman and in this country don’t enjoy been with such a a man and woman. Take time to ask what matters the most for your partner, is there anything she wants? learn more about your husband or wife, practice patience focus on each others emotions. Ask yourself: What does he need? What does he want? How can I really help him? How we deal with this issue as partners from a similar perspective?

2. Don’t be quick to react when there is a problem

Understand the movements of your spouse and love languages is important, make some efforts to try as much possible not to act on mare rumors and speculations concerning that relationship or marriage. do one thing each day to speak your spouse’s love language. Remember love is a language of affirmation that only two people practicing it can understand. Be gentle to react, slip a note into the pocket before living, formally request a formal talk to work out issues.

3. Always say what you need.

Been together simply means, taking care and sharing of responsibilities. You become caretakers when married,therefore and give too much hid in exciting one another with gifts if necessary. Don’t focus too much on taking care of everyone else apart from your love partner. Ask yourself what you need and then express it to your friend. As a man, ask sometimes What what can she really need? and surprise your woman with gifts when she less expect.

4. Always continue practicing love tricks

Love should not decrease the moment you settle down together. Ensure you find time, probably after your arrival at work before that first assignment to send a love text. Or just simply type and tell him or her that one thing you love the most. Its not easy to maintain with a tight schedule but you can Set a reminder on your phone reminding you to do one practical thing each day at the same time. This will help your partner know you value them so much. Call her that name she like, create room for having fan probably go out to see a gospel concert or a soccer match.

5. Never forget to Say thank you and sorry.

There is really no special way on How to love your marriage partner by showing them just how much through been quick to appreciate them. When in the wrong, instead of arguing and fighting, just simply sate how sorry you are and find a way to solve the difference between the two of you.

Most of the times people tend to justify who’s wrong, but for the sake of your relationship and love. Be quick to accept responsibility

Hope you have enjoyed this article and probably learnt a thing on special ways about How To Love Your Spouse And Maintain A Happy Relationship. Don’t forget to share !

Rock Peter – Biography – Who Is He?

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Rock Peter - Biography - Who Is He?
Rock Peter - Biography - Who Is He?

Kwacha Music Awards Nominee Rock Peter Africa is a Gospel Afro-beat Artist based in Ndola and is well loved for his unique kaonde-fuse style of music, he is also a member of a vibrant group called Team Yesu.

He realized his music talent at a young age and kept the dream alive even when no one believed in him. Today he is regarded by many as an inspiration. Rock is the Artist behind hit songs: Sulako Ulapepa, Liswalale, Mutaluke, Be A Blessing(BePalo) among many others.

His music is centered on realities of life and spreading the Love of God in a very Artistic way. Through his consistent desire to grow as a Brand and Gospel Minister,he got Nominated as Best Male Newcomer in the 2019 Kwacha Music Awards. Rock Peter Africa enjoys a productive life, away from the music scene he is a talented event MC,Model,Actor, Media Personality and an ICT student at ZAMCOM.

Kwanda Ft Ephraim – Nimwe

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Kwanda Ft Ephraim - Nimwe
Kwanda Ft Ephraim - Nimwe

Zambia’s revered gospel singer Kwanda out to bless us with her latest song “Nimwe” featuring the Son of Africa Ephraim, after dropping Nalichinfya released last year with Mag44.

‘Nimwe‘ is an affirmation to acknowledge God is the owner and creator of everything that’s under the sun. Without him, nothing would exist.

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Kwanda Ft Ephraim – Nimwe
Kwanda Ft Ephraim – Nimwe

Esther Chungu Set To Release New Album

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Esther Chungu
Esther Chungu

Recording female gospel Artist Esther Chungu is excited to announce a forth coming studio album. The phenomenal gospel minister with pieces including ‘Run away child’ and ‘Jehovah’, songs that have made an impact in the church on a national scale alerted people to expected another wonderful album, a composition of great songs.

Esther Chungu had taken to social media to announce the release of a new album a follow-up to her December 19, 2016 album “Mubanga”.

Esther Chungu Set To Release New Album

Christian John – Ndekenifye Imwite (Official Video)

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Co-pilot Media House presents Gospel singer & worship leader Christian John has unwrapped the much awaited visual for his single “Ndekenifye Imwite“.

What are you waiting for? Check out the amazing video below;

Mikrophone 7 – “Odalisidwa”

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Mikrophone 7 – “Ndine Odalisidwa”
Mikrophone 7 – “Ndine Odalisidwa”

Noble Artist Mikrophone 7 storms the industry with a beautiful gospel song titled “Ndine Odalisidwa” which is the first official single in the year 2020.

The highly highly anticipated single “Odalisidwa” (Blessed) is a beautiful soundtrack produced By Fumbani.

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Mikrophone 7 – “Ndine Odalisidwa”
Mikrophone 7 – “Ndine Odalisidwa”

Mercy Chinwo – Obinasom (Official Video)

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EeZee Conceptz leading gospel minister, Mercy Chinwo  releases a new music video to the worship song “Obinasom“. After the massive success from previous hit songs released in the past months Excess love, Omeka Nnaya, Akamdinelu, and lots more. The song Obinasom is what She decides to start the year with on a good note, providing what the fans have been expecting.

Christians risk lives to help those affected by the coronavirus in China

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Christians risk lives to help those affected by the coronavirus in China
Christians risk lives to help those affected by the coronavirus in China

The coronavirus death toll reaches 1,383, and the Christians on the mainland are risking their lives to provide aid to families in cities that have been deemed high risk for the disease.  According to Mark Hogsed, the Christian nongovernmental organization is partnering with local pastors to distribute emergency relief in the provinces surrounding Wuhan. These are provinces where the infection called COVID-19 a place of its origin since last septemeber.

“For over 20 years, we’d been working with a network of local Chinese pastors and church planters doing Bible distribution, church planting, and evangelizing,” he said. “So we heard this network is willing to distribute protective masks as well as food to the people they’re ministering to. All they needed were the resources. We are actively on the ground right now, providing masks and food to as many people as they can to help prevent the virus.” Readmore

Tio Nason x Tony Grammz – Runnin

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Tio Nason x Tony Grammz - Runnin
Tio Nason x Tony Grammz - Runnin

One of Zambia’s talented artist’s Taonga Nyirongo, known by the stage name Tio Nason drops a brand new song with Tony Grammz titled “Runnin”. The song “Runnin”, truly describes him in a few words we would say his a multi-talented, perfectionist artist to have unveiled this hot song.

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Tio Nason x Tony Grammz – Runnin
Tio Nason x Tony Grammz – Runnin
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