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Mycall – Fyonse

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Recording Gospel Michael Simpasa, popularly known as Mycall decides to bless us with a worship ignited soundtrack titled “Fyonse”. The artist began the musical journey at a kid, but only made the decision to take his ministry public in 2017yoing age and became recognized after the song “Prodigal Son”.

The song then was followed by “Fya Fye” were the act unveiled the greatest thing in Life.

And now in “Fyonse”, He upholds the graciousness of the most high God and the things he keeps on doing. He is the giver of life and everything that we see “Jesus”.

Mycall – Fyonse

Ephraim – No Situation

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Ephraim - No Situation
Ephraim - No Situation

Ephraim Zambia’s Recording gospel singer, drops a new spirit-lifting song titled “No Situation” coming off the recent album. Thus, “No Situation” is a quick move away from his latest recent albums and this came together with fixing my eyes album.

In conclusion, most Zambians have found the song “No Situation” to such one, which is embodied with a deep message that will lift your spirit in worshiping the almighty God.

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Listen, and share your thoughts below!

4 Important Roles of a Pastor In Marriage and Relationship

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4 Important Roles of a Pastor In Marriage and Relationship
4 Important Roles of a Pastor In Marriage and Relationship

Pastors are called by God having a mandate and a focused full-time assignment to God, winning souls and been a shepherd to the flock. Most of the time, people tend to wonder, what exactly is the pastors role other than preaching and praying for people, especially in marriage and relationship?

At most its not noticeable that a pastor can be your adviser, motivator, mentor and friend in some cases. Having a place to worship and pray is a best thing that can ever happen to a person, more especially if you have a friendly servant of God. Your church pastor’s first mandate is to win souls, carry out Administrative duties and assigned to deal with other staff that concern you directly.

A pastor keeps an eye on everyone under covering. Its there responsibility to curb a problem, its someone you rush to and seek counsel or direction. A pastor may advise on how appropriate you must address the issue, including having to pray with you. Every pastor has a high level of of responsibility, and there is just so much that a pastor can do including grooming of future better leaders through delegating responsibilities at church, but in this post we’re focusing on “Roles of a Pastor in Marriage and relationship.

Note: These answers are based on research and informative knowledge. If you feel you can make a contribution on this post, drop us a comment below or via email.

Sometimes people avoid having there pastor play any role in there love life. But after reading this, I guarantee you will not give it a second thought on why that your pastor should really be part of your marriage or relationship. Proceed to have insight on the noted facts about Important Roles of your Pastor;

An Arbitrator. In marriage and any Relationship there is a high chance of you having a dispute with your partner. Its all the time things will be swift and well, so when the need for a middle man arises the pastor is the right person to call. He role in your marriage is to build and restore back the happy balance you had before. Helps to fix your marriage, plays a role of a third person that guides and listens to both sides, helping suggest a better solution and passes a fair judgement of who’s wrong and right.

Marriage counselor. He is someone who has probably gone ahead of you in almost everything, therefore marriage counseling capabilities wouldn’t miss. At times any marriage and relationship is like a business venture. To succeed the owner at times would go and seek direction from those in the same field but longer. Think of marriage been a ladder and it is dependent on the effort you put in, how best you treat your partner and direction you drive that relationship, which determines how happily you stay. From matters of children, love to how best you can please your wife, finding a husband, a pastor will guide you effectively and giving you all the knowledge .

Marriage Comforter. It becomes hard to rely on mare people due to the fact some individuals really can not keep and secret and its not advisable to be going round caring a load of pain on your shoulders. Depression is a disease and its effect can very bad if allowed to take its course. Places individuals in place of isolation, which can cause you to say away from the face of God. Once you begin to feel broken, neglected and lost its the best time to locate your pastor and offload the weight, after this it will significantly improve the quality of life and your family.

Your Marriage Trainer. Its a responsibility of your pastor but only if you yourself is willing to learn on how to do certain things. Whether its all about life challenges and issues of marriage, together with dating or selecting a suitable trainer. Its part of the churches ministry to help provide needed improvement in those areas of marriage you might be having challenges.

Pompi & Mag44 – Wishing (Official Video)

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Atmosphere nation’s lead act Pompi & Mag44 finally decide to share their music video to the song “Wishing” off the collaborative album titled “Bwana”. The two unveiled a dual album in the year 2019, and back with yet another masterpiece.

Its a live visual performance short by Orange Apple Studios, and sound edited by Edwin ‘Nyno’ Kabeba. Watch, enjoy and comment below

5 Ways To Fix A Broken Marriage Or Relationship

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Fix A Broken Marriage Or Relationship
Fix A Broken Marriage Or Relationship

Your Can still Fix A Broken Marriage, Don’t quit on it just yet

In Africa they say, “a devil you know is way better than the angel you do not know.” All was well from the start not until couples begin to go against each other. Sudden fights and misunderstanding so now search for ways to repair a broken marriage. Many comment on the subject, saying, “there is a level when a relationship is not worth serving”.

Personally i disagree due to my past experience over the matter. Yes, feelings begin to deplete, leading to loss of interest towards each other. At times it might be later realized, its caused by what you must have done that’s making them act in a certain manner.

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Mostly caused by lack of direction in your marriage, sense of understanding and failure in finding a common ground. In western countries it’s okay for ladies to argue with a man, but in Africa once that it’s for him it becomes a way to bail out and look elsewhere for happiness and joy, including that which he feels has been missing with you.

Then what comes next is a terrible betrayal, walks to you and says, “this is not working, lets go our different ways.” find means to save your relationship and deal with a broken marriage because this is going to live you so hurtful, you fail to understand what’s causing such behaviors, the disappointments, these events can predict whether or not your marriage is going to survive further.

If this is how far you and your husband have gone, try these ways to fix your marriage or relationship

Here are common ways to fix a broken marriage or relationship

1. Pay attention to each other always

Ladies take things serious, unless you understand how to fix a broken marriage, this includes even the smallest details. Don’t interrupted when your partner is trying to raise a point that’s going to help serve your relationship. Let them know you actually want to work things, be a good listener to the points been raise.

Don’t be a type that likes to be over talking, Show deep concern in resolving the issue or quarrel at hand through giving into the discussion your effort and time until it gets settled

2. Avoid Common conflicts.

Knowing what your partner does not enjoy is a very important aspect to repair a broken marriage and in all this. Have common knowledge about each other not go on your borders and cause war. For example, if your partner states not to be in the mood of going out, don’t force or to question why? This will lead to desperation, then doubts and then you later fail to recognizing each other.

3. Put the past behind you.

Sometimes Seemingly out of nowhere you raise up a matter that belongs buried in the past. This is out of character, and not good for your relationship and marriage. Certain words from the past over what she did, may hurt too much to ever heal again, if you are to fix a broken relationship and broken marriage wounds from the past, because they cut so deep than the present, and must not be what builds your relationship.

Avoid adding salt to the wounded partner, this will not solve and resolve your marriage or relationship. Don’t press on one another to see who did something big in the past and who’s causing everything and how far it has come, again history is history.

Fin room for a valid conversation, focus on the issues to build and not digging up past dirt, this will only brake you even more if you don’t push forward to show real concern and love her for the health of your relationship. When one partner feels he or she is not making progress, other than been hurt and reminded of past mistakes discussed but you seem to still hold onto them, fortifying it with bad examples they sense are coming from the past , significantly drives them away from you to reach extreme levels of hurting you even more.

4. Trusting each other can fix a broken relationship.

Find a mutual position to stall your love trusting issues. No matter what’s going on, trust and belief in your marriage towards each other always exist.Don’t be a person that cause on your partner with inhuman names, raising speculations of cheating on you when the main issue it hand is not adultery. Concentrate on that energy, on the deep reasons of why you choose to be with her in the first place. How angry, broken, hurt, or bad of a mood you are having , its not subtle to bring vengeful trust acts toward each other.

This causes distress with the situation you are having at hand and really no way it will make things work out between the two of you. Mistrust in your partner challenges and affirms you do not really understand even what the bible says concerning love and marriage. know the partner you are with in the first place. Because a person you know too well, you will by all means and power trust them.

7. Be accountable and take the responsibility.

Taking shorts and trying to justify you are the master who is always right, taking a side corner will just cause havoc in that your marriage. Pointing fingers, playing a blame game is nothing but a power play and a relation, more especially a happy one can never be built on power but love. Just observe what you have done most importantly what the other person thinks, being the chief stone to accept the blame at times, the mistakes, ride on the root cause, why did this start? how did it get to this level? what exactly was it that I have done wrong?

There is a magic moment in both partners you realize that its not worth it to play a winning game and this would have ended long ago, had you just taken the responsibility and accountable for actions.

To conclude; i believe hope is still there in your marriage since there is life. Take a mile step from this moment be passionate about your marriage or relationship, avoid been angry or upset when you are supposed to sit in the room wishing yourselves good moments and projecting over your future together. Remember, the devil you know is better than the angel you have not known, the person you are with is the angel God gave you.

Search for signs of a broken marriage, form a more concrete door to ensure that marriage is repaired relationship and bars so strong to break. Finally don’t become a couple that was once-loving who allowed their relationship to disappear into a lifeless, due to high, increased fights, angry energy in each other not to see what you have because its not easy been able to actually fix a broken marriage., so don’t destroy it in the first place.

6 Proven Ways to finding a Boyfriend (Husband)

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5 Proven Ways to finding a Boyfriend (Husband)
5 Proven Ways to finding a Boyfriend (Husband)

Most African countries have a population of more women, the opposite gender is more as compared to a number of men available this been the case for Zambia as well. So we have ladies searching online these days on how to find a boyfriend or husband? Well, the bible in Proverbs 18:22 says, He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the Lord”. But this is actually in reference to men finding and looking for whom to marry, not women.

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But its so imperative and common in Africa to see men, looking for wives and women at the same time eyeing and aspiring the man to settle down with. Mostly these women hide there feelings other than just giving hints and signs of interest in you. I honestly do not know if its right for a woman to start looking for a man to date and marry because its not a bigger deal to find a boyfriend, and I believe you have a reason to start looking for ways on how to find a boyfriend and lover for yourself.

Maybe its due to the past experience, so you want to try out some new love shoes LOL :). Well that’s simple but the challenge is finding a person who will not just waist your time but also settle with you and maintaining your relationship once married. One thing for certain is, most women are dreamers and want to live beautiful moments with a dream child hood partner, so they try understanding ways on how to find a good boyfriend?

Again its not every woman that can find a Boyfriend, so this article is for those with a most frequent question on how to get a man. And hopefully finding a person who will love them.

So, why do Girls try to find a boyfriend?

Due to Age: After reaching a certain age, its hard in Africa to locate your special soul mate, its a common thing for ladies above the age of 25 years in Zambia. While others its because of location, living in a small city and lack of needed exposure with different people, so don’t wonder why Lusaka is very populated.

Reduction in Males: Another reason is because men have become few than compared to women. Zambia alone in 2018 had female population of 50.49 % in total, according to a collection of development indicator recorded by World Bank. More ladies, means less men so that’s why we’ve created (6) six simple proven tips for you to find a boyfriend and then paddle towards having a good serious relationship and hopefully get married.

1. Have confidence and feel good about yourself always.

The looks mostly don’t matter and should not be a reason for you to think less of your self. Just like Pompi stated in his song “Make Up”, there’s more to you than what beauty holds. Get your head straight up, brighten your day with music, feel great about yourself in order to make a man see the greatness in you. Let the fire shine in your eyes, remember your a star and the city that shines on top of a heel, that which can never be hidden. A woman who loves herself cares more, so men search for that thing making a woman to feel safer. Focus on beauty of course, but develop more self-esteem.

Push had to reach and attain higher levels of Self-love which is extremely important in your life. After this then you can begin on ways to getting a boyfriend. People will see you from how you see yourself and nothing else. So how you think you’re made, same applies to the way men will see you and categorize your status which is key to finding a partner.

2. Find a Church and Do not refuse invitations

I mentioned above, finding a Man is really not a bigger deal, but having someone around you whose matured and with the intent to settle down in marriage is a problem. Good men are found in good places, the Church is the place to begin looking for a man. The bible says, “the fear of the lord is the beginning of wisdom”, therefore he who fears the lord surely has wisdom. So grow your network with friends from Church, leave the house! serve God and men somehow will notice your love for God and follow you. REMEMBER! seek first the kingdom of God and the rest will follow.

Go out on dinner invites, live good times with friends go to parties. Off course bars are also a place to find a man but just from the term “bars”, surely you can relate the kind of men found in such places. As a christian the best place is work, parties, at church or any other place you can meet people.

3. Do not be rude to men.

If you want to have a serious relationship, learn how to properly handle those who will be coming after you. Its a best way to a long process of having to find a Boyfriend . Bad new travels faster so be extremely nice to guys someone out there might be watching you on a distance and observing your behavior. On the contrary, either you don’t like been inconvenienced you will have lose your face a smile when approached and not to scare them.

But again don’t be too nice and open so you look desperate for a man. Let things things happen naturally acting like you know nothing. There is a time for everything and if its your time for finding a man, then it will happen once the right moment has arrived, once the right person arrived.

4. Look good to find a Boyfriend and be happy at all times

Exchange your looks and ensure you have smiles on your face, this helps to find a Boyfriend more especially when with that guy you’re interested in. Suit your mood with the place you are into, anyone having fan wants to talk to someone who seems to be happy. So to get a boyfriend, you should show joy in your life and happiness, so always mile, cheer up, talk, and importantly be nice !

5. Put the phone addiction aside if you’re find a Boyfriend .

Nowadays, to find a boyfriend you must not show your device addiction. Men don’t like ladies taking selfies and chatting on social networks like Whatsapp instead of focusing on the conversation. In Zambia many people go out with friends to talk and for some its offensive to see you end up with the cell phone in your hand. Its acceptable if its a call you are answering, but typing on your phone makes other people think you on the social networks or looking at other guys, failing to participate in the conversation with a man you might be with. If you stay like this, addicted to a mobile device, It will be hard to meet nice people and find a boyfriend or have a relationship. So please put the phone addiction aside!

6. To find a Boyfriend, avoid talking too much.

The bible refers to a man been the head of the house and Christ is the head of the church. A man looks up to man according to the bible and African culture, but these days due to the so called human rights women always want to talk more. If you are to talk, use a cool tone in your voice, take the conversation light and easy for him to think of you been much of a talker. When speaking, control your bad habits and avoid to gossip about your friends, his friends or people he might know.

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Do not speak ill of another person always try creating some mystery about yourself. Have good manners, try to find unique ways on how to make this man, who might be your husband, after trying so hard to find a Boyfriend more interested in you and him to be sweethearts.

5 Ways To Love Your Zambian Spouse And Maintain Peace

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5 Ways On How To Love Your Zambian Spouse
5 Ways On How To Love Your Zambian Spouse

Zambia is a very beautiful country, blessed with peace, not forgetting the beautiful lifestyle people enjoy. But complications follow, especially those in love sometimes, men having issues with there wives (Zambian women) and vice versa . According to Dailymail, records show over 28,000 cases of divorces are recorded annually. This is avoided if you know How To Love Your Spouse And Maintain A Happy Stable Relationship. And since you are here it means you really don’t want to go down the same lane, but really want to work tings out and enter the next phase with you spouse.

Communities are supportive of marriage and commitments made. But In as much as it is easy for you to find a partner, its a different case to enjoying a long term happy relationship because pressure draws into play and all over sudden fights escalate, disrespect in some cases, leading to Gender based violance (GBV) and later a divorce .

People get married almost everyday, couples seeing having tremendous moments, which is why its a prolific thing to understand Ways To Love Your Zambian Spouse. Citizens have a right to choose and enjoy love to the extreme with no restrictions, which is a social need, no one is deprived of this according to the law. But let’s not forget its your duty to understand special ways on how to treat your woman and man.

Since ancient times it is believed “if people just truly love one another, then surely they stay together”. But the bigger question is understanding exactly how to truly stay in love as husband and wife. So before you jump to 5 ways of how to love your spouse, Women always remember Ephesians 5:22 in line with submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord, while Ephesians 5:25 commands Husbands to love your wives. Alternatively you can check these scriptures about love and marriage. Most couples on our Facebook page had openly stated reasons for not getting much out of there relationships been because of not knowing ways to treat each other with love and respect, so Here Are;

5 ways on how to love your spouse better than before.

If you don’t better ways to love your spouse, take note that in fact, sometimes all you need is the application of some initiative.

1. Be considerate of your partners wants and feelings

Every society prefers to have individuals who take the feelings of others into consideration and not been self-centered. It becomes a problem in a developing country like Zambia been all about your self. And in those situations woman and in this country don’t enjoy been with such a a man and woman. Take time to ask what matters the most for your partner, is there anything she wants? learn more about your husband or wife, practice patience focus on each others emotions. Ask yourself: What does he need? What does he want? How can I really help him? How we deal with this issue as partners from a similar perspective?

2. Don’t be quick to react when there is a problem

Understand the movements of your spouse and love languages is important, make some efforts to try as much possible not to act on mare rumors and speculations concerning that relationship or marriage. do one thing each day to speak your spouse’s love language. Remember love is a language of affirmation that only two people practicing it can understand. Be gentle to react, slip a note into the pocket before living, formally request a formal talk to work out issues.

3. Always say what you need.

Been together simply means, taking care and sharing of responsibilities. You become caretakers when married,therefore and give too much hid in exciting one another with gifts if necessary. Don’t focus too much on taking care of everyone else apart from your love partner. Ask yourself what you need and then express it to your friend. As a man, ask sometimes What what can she really need? and surprise your woman with gifts when she less expect.

4. Always continue practicing love tricks

Love should not decrease the moment you settle down together. Ensure you find time, probably after your arrival at work before that first assignment to send a love text. Or just simply type and tell him or her that one thing you love the most. Its not easy to maintain with a tight schedule but you can Set a reminder on your phone reminding you to do one practical thing each day at the same time. This will help your partner know you value them so much. Call her that name she like, create room for having fan probably go out to see a gospel concert or a soccer match.

5. Never forget to Say thank you and sorry.

There is really no special way on How to love your marriage partner by showing them just how much through been quick to appreciate them. When in the wrong, instead of arguing and fighting, just simply sate how sorry you are and find a way to solve the difference between the two of you.

Most of the times people tend to justify who’s wrong, but for the sake of your relationship and love. Be quick to accept responsibility

Hope you have enjoyed this article and probably learnt a thing on special ways about How To Love Your Spouse And Maintain A Happy Relationship. Don’t forget to share !

Rock Peter – Biography – Who Is He?

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Rock Peter - Biography - Who Is He?
Rock Peter - Biography - Who Is He?

Kwacha Music Awards Nominee Rock Peter Africa is a Gospel Afro-beat Artist based in Ndola and is well loved for his unique kaonde-fuse style of music, he is also a member of a vibrant group called Team Yesu.

He realized his music talent at a young age and kept the dream alive even when no one believed in him. Today he is regarded by many as an inspiration. Rock is the Artist behind hit songs: Sulako Ulapepa, Liswalale, Mutaluke, Be A Blessing(BePalo) among many others.

His music is centered on realities of life and spreading the Love of God in a very Artistic way. Through his consistent desire to grow as a Brand and Gospel Minister,he got Nominated as Best Male Newcomer in the 2019 Kwacha Music Awards. Rock Peter Africa enjoys a productive life, away from the music scene he is a talented event MC,Model,Actor, Media Personality and an ICT student at ZAMCOM.

Kwanda Ft Ephraim – Nimwe

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Kwanda Ft Ephraim - Nimwe
Kwanda Ft Ephraim - Nimwe

Zambia’s revered gospel singer Kwanda out to bless us with her latest song “Nimwe” featuring the Son of Africa Ephraim, after dropping Nalichinfya released last year with Mag44.

‘Nimwe‘ is an affirmation to acknowledge God is the owner and creator of everything that’s under the sun. Without him, nothing would exist.

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Kwanda Ft Ephraim – Nimwe
Kwanda Ft Ephraim – Nimwe

Esther Chungu Set To Release New Album

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Esther Chungu
Esther Chungu

Recording female gospel Artist Esther Chungu is excited to announce a forth coming studio album. The phenomenal gospel minister with pieces including ‘Run away child’ and ‘Jehovah’, songs that have made an impact in the church on a national scale alerted people to expected another wonderful album, a composition of great songs.

Esther Chungu had taken to social media to announce the release of a new album a follow-up to her December 19, 2016 album “Mubanga”.

Esther Chungu Set To Release New Album
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